Tips To Get Along With Your Superior

We have all probably had them at some point in our lives. The superior who seems to torment and criticize us relentlessly and the one that makes us dread coming to work every day. Our motivation dwindles, our productivity decreases and we consider leaving the job – it’s natural. However, quitting shouldn’t be the first solution. How we manage ourselves with regard to our superior could be key to a positive work experience. We share some tips with you.

1. Know your superior

Get to know your boss’ likes and dislikes. We often go about our regular duties until our superior criticizes the way things are being done. This is a classic case of miscommunication. From the get-go, make sure of what you’re supposed to do and how your boss wants it to be done. Being silent often gives the impression that you are in sync with your employer when a task is allocated to you. There are a hundred and one ways a task can be done – having a discussion whilst exchanging viewpoints will keep things in perspective. 

2. Look at yourself

It’s hard to notice our own faults. When we fail to see them, we might automatically assume the boss is being harsh and critical. Before doing so, remember to ask yourself if you’ve done everything correctly. If that doesn’t help, get a second opinion of your performance. An objective viewpoint will put things in perspective. 

3. Don’t get defensive

Yes, easier said than done. When we’re criticized for doing something incorrectly we can’t help but take it as a personal attack against ourselves. In most cases, it isn’t and even if it is, reacting with anger should never be the solution. Work on discussing the matter. Leverage on the criticism to discuss where you’ve gone wrong and what exactly is it that your superior wants. Ask them for advice and work on how you can improve. Chances are that if you do get defensive, you’ll be opening yourself up for additional attacks. Your boss probably has a bigger ego after all.

4. Be Professional

It’s harder to change others than yourself. If your superior really is difficult to deal with, then change the way you react to their behavior. Understand the difference between not liking your superior and not being professional. You do not have an obligation to like your superior, but you are obliged to be professional and do a good job. And lastly, leave your work problems at work. Complaining about your superior  to your family and friends is indicative of the impact they have on your life.

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